What do you do when you genuinely enjoy spending time with a person, and care about them, but you hate several things about them.

For example, Let's say you are dating someone who drinks constantly. It really bothers you, and you don't drink.

What do you do in that situation? Break up with them? Deal with it.

There is a point where you just don't want to be around them if they are not going to respect themselves. I don't care if you drink, or your friends drink, and you enjoy it.

I'm saying, if you make a choice to be with someone, shouldn't that choice be reflective of who you are. If you want someone in your life, shouldn't it be someone you don't mind being around under all circumstances.

Maybe I am wrong. It's much worse when you're in a relationship with someone, and the problems bother you, when you thought they wouldn't.

You thought that they were mild, but as time goes on, they grate at you.

Do you love a whole person, or a part? and furthermore, Are the things your significant other does directly related to you.

-p2

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