"I think girls write dumb diaries about stupid shit that they want others to read, cause they have no sense of self worth."
I think it goes a bit deeper than that, in that it's not so much a case of a lack of sense of self worth, but just very basically a lack of self.
It seems that girls these days aren't so sure in who they are- most are (over)eager to please and go from one relationship to another in hopes that by that relationship they will gain their definition. The look to the relationship to make them who they are.
And, of course, if that relationship fails, then they see themselves as failures, and the world becomes more dramatic than it really is/should be. The ones who will make it through, the ones who know how to weather those stormy times of "oh he doesn't love me!" and "I wouldn't sleep with his friend when he asked me to or go drinking every night with him, he's going to dump me!" are the ones who a) Know who they are, b) Know their own limits, c) Know when to say no.
The girls who make it through life, the girls who don't end up with a horrible 'boyfriend' who abuses them are the ones who know what they want, and by extension of that what they do not want.
Intergrity has a lot to do with your own self identity; if you're willing to do anything for anyone without regard for your own feelings, thoughts, and ultimately safety, then we can't help but blame you when you do truly let those around you down because you've let everyone down by not being yourself.
- Your pal,
p1
2005-10-02 - still gone
2005-02-03 - We've moved!
2005-01-30 - I'll take a #3 please
2005-01-26 - The Matrix Has You
2005-01-26 - Lowered standards.
